I've been reading about people who
collect china. For years I bought sets of pretty dishes and never used
them. My cabinets were filled to
overflowing and I had to do something so I gave the china to family, sold it on
ebay, sent some to Salvation Army and kept only my Mother's beautiful Haviland
and my own Christmas Spode.
I'm afraid to use the Florentine
Haviland, not because it can't be replaced, but because the replacements are
not my Mom's. The replacement dishes are
not the ones she used everyday--not like the plate she smashed over the edge of
a counter when she found out that I went to a concert with a boy but told her I
was at a girlfriend's house. Not the
same at all!! I sometimes have a cup of
tea in one of her cups and I can feel her hand on my shoulder. I think she is telling me to "Wash that
cup and saucer by hand and put them away carefully!" Due to the visionary talk I don't use her
crystal either.
That leaves the Christmas Spode. Yup, that's what we eat on every day. Every day is Christmas around our house. Our sweet son-in-law says he hadn't lived
until he ate pizza served on Christmas Spode in August. He says it's nice, in a "My
mother-in-law is wacky" kind of way.
I get that a lot when I pull out the Spode!
Then there are our wine glasses--no
stems! They are little round tubby balls
of crystal that friends roll their eyes over when I serve wine. I will not go into the wine glasses right now
except to say that the people who think stemless wine glasses are a new thing
should think again, because I brought these babies from Germany with me 35
years ago.
I have to admit that I love seeing my
friends' and family's china--what they buy, what they use, what sits in their
cabinets and is never used. I believe
that nothing is more telling about personality than china, crystal and silver
choices. I hope you will share yours
with me and tell me how you came to purchase/inherit them.
Speaking of silver, our was a wedding
gift. I hate polishing it so it sits in
the silver chest and is never used. It
doesn't go with the Christmas Spode anyway.
Knitting is coming along:
Lace Edged Sweater
finished
2 Kaths Hat through
Fair Isle and headed toward long back and tassel